Of course the Hubs knows. He is the biggest fan of my blog!

xx
TW

BTW, what a tease LOL

-X

“Sweetheart, you don’t buy a car before you test drive it.”

I agree with everything said as being the highest probability outcome.

I recommend zooming the camera out a bit when shooting your videos in the future to better show off your figure. (or zooming into your face more, or wear a tighter outfit)

Just some suggestions to try to improve your on-video aesthetics.

This was my same situation 10 years ago – he was involved with someone, pursued me, I found out about the significant other, and we kept fooling around. Carried on for months. As time went on, he didn’t leave her for me like I wanted him to. I eventually had enough, so I cut him out of my life.

In the end, he left her because their relationship wasn’t working out. Then he tried to get me back. I was seeing someone else who would later become by husband, and I was more interested in fooling around WITH husband than ON husband, so I said TFB, I’m taken, go piss up a rope.

My point here is the same as Julie’s: if something’s wrong with their relationship, it will eventually end in its own way and on its own time. Don’t waste your energy trying to come between them. It won’t work, and it isn’t worth it. Mistress status, as long as he’s shelling out, is indeed worth it, IMO, as long as you are comfortable being the other woman, and not the only woman.

In that case… I’ve never been so proud of my fiancee XD

I don’t want to upset A with my answer because I’m pretty sure it isn’t what she wanted to hear. But at the same time, I have to be honest and tell it as it is.

I’m not an advocate for ‘stealing someone else’s man’ – and I think you’re absolutely right that she needs to back off a bit – maybe show him what he’s missing if she isn’t around? Making yourself too available for any man allows him to take you for granted.

Maybe if A gives L some space, he might reconsider the situation? It also gives her the time to think about what SHE wants.

Thanks for your advice my love!

xoxo,
TW

Chances are, she could wind up with L and they live happily ever after. Those chances are slim.

If she does steal him away, then what? Most women would carry a little worry that “He cheated on & left her – what if he does that to me?”

And finally, the deliberate intent to “steal’ someone else’s man kind of chaps me. On one hand, I’m all for setting goals & going after what you want. But what then? (see paragraph above) On the other hand, it sounds like L is quite interested in her already. Maybe she should back off & let him choose her.

It’s so nice to hear from you.

Funny – Husband came home early the other night and I was completely flustered? Seriously – you need to give a girl some warning?!

Hope you and your TW are doing well!

xoxo,
TW