I’m 52, accomplished, no children, divorced from a surgeon and have a pretty terrific life. I’ve traveled to almost 40 countries, been engaged twice (long stories!), and have always met great men. I happened to find your blog in an article in the NYPost about accomplished Asian women. You really nailed it, and I loved the way you’re sexy, smart, and tell it like it is! So, I see you like questions. Well, I have a situation and I’d love to get your feedback…
I’ve been dating this man for 8 months. He’s in his mid 70′s, Jewish, high profile business, respected, Architectural Digest Beverly Hills and Malibu homes, fascinating, a whiz on history, music, arts, and politics. You get it. He also has never been married. I stay with him Saturday through Monday morning, sometimes during the week, He’s compartmentalized, and a neat freak- his home looks like a hotel with staff too. I hear nothing from him when we’re apart. Three months after we met, he admitted still seeing the gal he was engaged to- and other women too. She accepts the situation, is a gorgeous Russian, and dates other too. I date a guy in Dallas. I’m in L.A., so we see each other every two months. He a busy, interesting guy too.
Problem: He likes me, I’m the “weekend gal”, but he goes to political conventions and the opera- with HER. He says he’s never going to marry her. She’s really like a friend after 4 years, and the “fire” is out.
Would you dump him? Or, keep dating him?
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