An piece of performance art has been causing all sorts of controversy of late – it’s Vaginal Knitting.
What is it exactly?
Well, my first reaction is – HOLY FUCK! A lady has trained her vagina to KNIT for her? I mean, I’ve heard of puppetry of the penis, but that is one talented beaver!
My second reaction after I visualized a knitting vagina was – ouch! I actually know how to knit and those knitting needles are pointy mutherfuckers…
Read More »Dear TW,
What do you think about pretty smart twenty somethings dating successful fifty somethings who are sexy and have no kids or ex wives?
Thanks,
Sheila
Read More »
So, I’ve returned from what seemed like a very long weekend in London where I noticed a few things that I wanted to run by you guys just to make sure that I haven’t turned into a complete unreasonable bitch.
The concept of tipping and service.
Let me explain:
I come from Australia, where tipping isn’t mandatory. I mean, if you have a nice meal, you usually leave with your check a few dollars or your change. At bars, you don’t tip for drinks generally. There is none of this 15% minimum tip business there at all.
Read More »Dear TW,
How can I stop being so shy with guys that I am interested in? I feel like I have to be tipsy to calm my nerves and not be so shy, and then when we talk when I’m sober I feel really shy and uncomfortable.
Please help!
Mel
Read More »
So, there is FINALLY a term that describes people who are open about sex and exploring their sexuality, which is something that I am a HUGE advocate of – it’s called being “Sex Positive.” The definition of this term is that all consensual expressions of sex and sexuality are good and healthy.
I feel really strongly about this, and I think it’s especially positive and beneficial for women out there to be Sex Positive.
If you’ve been reading my blog posts for a while, you’ll know that I have always been open and honest talking about sex – and why not? The way I see it, sex is an important part of life – we all do it, or at least think about it, so why should we always have to be so hush hush about it?
Read More »Dear TW,
I am supposed to get married on December 28th this year. However, my fiancée and I constantly have arguments that center around his family.
About 8 months ago, we had a heated discussion about why his mother is an awful person and should be mostly barred from interacting with grand kids if any… This became all kind of crazy and culminated in me saying I am marrying down and his whole family is made of scum and his parents are unfit.
Fiancée apparently recorded this and played it to mother from hell and devil sister and estranged at her who has a new wife. So now they all hate me.
Fiancée sometimes tries to force me to do stupid things like apologize (I will never because everything is factual) or ambush his mother with a surprise hug (fucking psycho) or to be proud of his family (what is there to be proud of? His mother is selfish and mostly useless and his sister is 31 with less savings than a teenager).
We were having dinner yesterday and talking about wedding payment etc when I said “your parents aren’t paying for jack shit” and fiancée proceeded to say “your parents are jack shit for raising a [Read More…]
Read More »
Disappointingly, one of the big headlines that made a few of the recent online sites that I frequent is that “Scarlett Johansson is pro-porn.”
Seriously? Are we still doing this?
In today’s day and age, is there a still a general assumption that all women are anti-porn, whereas men are all porn addicts?
I’m frustrated by the fact that a woman who advocates recreational porn consumption is still making news. Why is it such a big deal? Obviously because the whole ‘porn double standard’ still applies.
Ever since I wrote the post last year I Heart Porn, a lot of my female readers have reached out to me privately to let me know that they also enjoy watching other people getting off.
Read More »Dear TW,
So let me lay out the situation before the question.
I love my fiancé, we have a child together and one on the way. She makes me happier than I’ve ever been with someone before. We have everything a perfect couple could ask for, and more, except for the sexual desire.
It almost feels like sometimes we are just best friends. My end of the situation is covered, I’m all about pleasing her (because seeing her get off gets me off) [sorry if this is blunt]. I’m all about trying many different things, I love being in the moment, and I just simply love sex. A LOT.
Now to describe her side of the situation: When we first started dating she gave the same impression, it was like I almost couldn’t get her off of me sometimes (which I didn’t mind). She was all about trying new things and crazy about it. However about 4 months into our relationship (we’ve been together for 4 yrs. now) it just stopped. I feel like I almost have to beg her or schedule a time to have sex. On top of that, she totally isn’t about trying new things anymore, spontaneity is non-existent. When we [Read More…]
Read More »
My parents live in a beautiful 3 bed 3 bath apartment in Taiwan, which means: one bedroom for Momma Lin, one for Dad and one guest room for me.
Yes, my parents have had their own bedrooms for as long as I can remember – somehow Momma Lin always gets the master suite with the fuck off double sink bathroom and Dad gets to sleep in the not so awesome sickkick bedroom. Well played Momma Lin…well played…
Anywho – for me, it’s totally normal for my parents to sleep in separate rooms, for many reasons:
Read More »Dear TW,
Is it possible that by their mid-30s, men are still nervous to speak to women? I’m 36, single and dating, and my biggest single frustration is that when I give a man my number, he uses it only or at least primarily for texting.
Don’t get me wrong… I’m all for texting, sometimes. But not in lieu of speaking. It’s definitely great for confirming plans, quick questions, directions, etc. And even for the post-date thank you, a little flirting, etc. But if a guy never calls and only texts, it completely turns me off. I guess because I find it immature.
I can understand if a teenager or even an early 20-something is nervous and opts more frequently for texting over calling, but shouldn’t a man approaching 40 have a bit more confidence? Am I alone here??
Thanks,
Bobbi